With so many blogs being created every day, it’s a mystery to many bloggers how to make their blog stand out. There are many types of blogs or purposes for blogs and a certain number of tactics are applicable to just about all of them.Some companies choose to hire a blog consultant, but others like to try things internally. For those “DIY” companies and individuals interested in practical tips for marketing and optimizing a business blog, try out the following list of blog marketing and optimization tips:

Decide on a stand alone domain name www.myblog.com or directory of existing site www.mysite.com/blog. Sub domain is also an option blog.mysite.com. Avoid hosted services that do not allow you to use your own domain name!


Obtain and install customizable blog software – WordPress and Moveable Type are my favorites.
Customize blog look and feel templates – aka design.
Research keywords and develop a glossary – Keyword Discovery, WordTracker, SitePoint, SEOBook Keyword Research.
Optimize the blog:
Template optimization – RSS subscription options, social bookmark links, HTML code, Unique title tags, URLs, Sitemap
Add helper plugins specific to WordPress or MT
Create keyword rich categories (reference your keyword glossary)
Enable automatic trackback and ping functionality.
Create Feedburner Pro account and enable feed tracking.
Setup a Google account for Sitemap, validate and prep for future submission.
Identify authoritative blogs, web sites and hubs for outbound resource links and blogroll.
Format archived posts, related posts.
Enable statistics for tracking – Google Analytics, ClickTracks.
Submit RSS feed and Blog URL to prominent RSS and Blog directories / search engines.
Engage in an ongoing link building campaign.
If podcast or video content are available, submit to Podcast and Vlog directories.
Submit blog url to paid directories with categories for blogs – Yahoo, BOTW, bCentral, WOW, JoeAnt.
Optimize and distribute a press release announcing blog.
Request feedback or reviews of your blog in relevant forums, discussion threads. If you have a resourceful post that will help others, point to it.
Research and comment on relevant industry related blogs and blogs with significant centers of influence.
Post regularly. If it’s a news oriented blog, 3-5 times per day. If it’s an authoritative blog, 3-5 times per week, but each post must be unique and high value.
Monitor inbound links, traffic, comments and mentions of your blog – Google Alerts, Technorati, Blogpulse, Yahoo News, Ask Blogs and Feeds.
Always respond to comments on your blog and when you detect a mention of your blog on another blog, thank that blogger in the comments of the post.
Make contact with related bloggers on AND offline if possible.
When making blog posts always cite the source with a link and don’t be afraid to mention popular bloggers by name. Use keywords in the blog post title, in the body of the post and use anchor text when you link to previous posts you’ve made.
Use social networking services, forums and discussion threads to connect with other bloggers. If they like your stuff, they will link to you.
Remember when web sites were a new concept and the sage advice to print your web address everywhere you print your phone number? The same advice applies for your blog.
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If your blog’s goal is to promote you as an authority, interview other prominent bloggers in your industry. Your own credibility will improve by association.
Build out your online networks through services such as MyBlogLog, Twitter and Facebook and leverage them to promote particularly useful content on your blog.
Once your blog has 1000 or more subscribers, show your Feedburner badge
Host images with Flickr making sure to include an anchor text link in the image description back to the post where the image is used.
Use your blog to gain press/media credentials at relevant industry conferences and use the event to create content, connections and increase your knowledge.
This post was originally published on June 15, 2006 and has continued to receive many inbound links. As time changes, so do some tactics, so we’ve added a few tactics (after original 25) that have emerged in their usefulness. What would you add to this list?

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WHAT IS TAT (Tapas ACUPRESSURE TECHNIQUE)?
TAT (Tapas Acupressure Technique) is an easy process to end the stress, trauma, fear (phobia), a sense of suffering & to create a sense of happiness.
TAT is a new technique, a simple and effective way to create a sense of peace, relaxation, and healthy in a short time. TAT is one form of therapy in a group of Energy Psychology is the science is rapidly growing. This technique is done by lightly touching a few acupuncture points on the head (Position TAT), while directing your attention to the problem you want solved (7 Steps of Healing TAT). Touching these points with the light fading effect will provide the trauma, so that the thoughts and negative mood also decreased, especially after experiencing a traumatic event.


TAT HOW CAN HELP DISASTER SITUATIONS?
There are many aspects of the TAT which makes it ideal to help the condition of natural disasters. First, TAT is very easy to learn, and always uses the same acupuncture points on the head. In conditions where energy resources and limited assistance, the healing process can begin. In addition, TAT can be used for a group of people, thus helping the recovery is much faster than the healing process carried out against one individual.

Another important aspect is also the TAT does not require people to re-experience or undergo repeated trauma events. Even the TAT is not too much use of language / conversation compared to other forms of therapy, and enable individuals to focus attention on the issue in accordance with their own perceptions, without having to tell or express it in words.

In a disaster situation, where we often feel lost control over aspects of our lives, TAT can be very useful. With TAT, a person can do their own healing process, and now has a "device" that can be used at any time. This helps people to realize that they are the party who "saved" and not "victims".

TAT also release and heal past traumas stored in the subconscious and deals with the present crisis situation. Traumatic memory has a tendency to gather and accumulate, thus affecting individuals and communities as a whole. TAT is also effective to prevent secondary trauma to the volunteers / field workers who interact with victims.

Even more importantly, the TAT is not only useful for the direct victims of the disaster, but also can be used for those who are not direct victims, but negatively affected by the disaster. The volunteers who go to the field, and those who witnessed the proclamation of disaster, often have a negative impact also undesirable from the disaster. Various fears, anxieties, and all other stress can be greatly helped by the TAT.

We recommend that everyone learn the techniques before a disaster TAT directly. Although we do not expect any further reduction, but very good when we had mastered the psychological recovery process much earlier, so knew what to do when the need arises.

WHO CAN PROCESS helped by TAT?
TAT can be used as a process to (1) to help themselves, (2) helping other people as individuals, and (3) helping others in groups with a facilitator TAT. When individuals can not touch TATnya point, perhaps because of injury or other reasons, then other people can touch point for individual TAT, and the results were still effective.

TAT IS USEFUL TO HAVE DISASTER IN OTHER COUNTRIES?
Yes. Ignacio Jarero, founder and president of the Association of Therapy Crisis in Mexico and Latin America, said that so many small children and adults who experience a significant reduction of post-traumatic stress symptoms, at the end of the TAT process.

TAT is also a favorite technique of field therapy team to reduce stress because it is very easy to do and taught to others. TAT is even used by members of the crisis team to deal with stress and tension that they experience due to direct interaction with the victims.

Mexican Crisis Therapy Association also has used TAT to around 1.652 children after the flood disaster in Mexico, floods and landslides in Nicaragua, the earthquake disaster in Colombia, landslides and floods in Venezuela. TAT is also used when the Tsunami disaster in Aceh and Sri Lanka.

Green Cross, a humanitarian organization that is similar to the Red Cross (Red Cross), but more focused on healing psychological trauma, has sought to increase the number of personnel trained expert with Energy Psychology methods. Energy Psychology is also increasingly used by expert counseling delivered by Green Cross to the disaster areas.

Psychologist Charles Figley, Ph.D., founder of Green Cross in 1995 and was also prominent figures in the field of trauma therapy, says "Energy Psychology increasingly proved to be one of the most powerful intervention for psychological experts who assist victims of disasters, as well as for talent itself. "

In Indonesia alone, TAT is used intensively during the first time the earthquake in Yogyakarta in 2006. Next TAT continues to grow and be used as well as Gintung Situ disasters, and psychological recovery during the second Marriott bomb.

TAT TO STRESS AND COMMON PROBLEMS
TAT usage forms the most basic and simple, is doing enough TAT position and observe your problem. Be aware of all thoughts, feelings and physical sensations that come and go, and allow yourself to watch in peace. When you're done, or feel a change, remove your hands and realize what you feel after the process.
Repeat as needed until the problem no longer bother you, or until you can relax even considering the issue.

HOW DO TAT POSITION
With one hand, lightly touch the tip of your thumb on one corner of your eye. By the end of the third finger of the same hand, lightly touch on the corners in the other eye. Point on the tip of the eye and go up about 3 mm from the tip of the eye.

Touch lightly with the same hand, your middle finger at that point was between the eyebrows and went upstairs about 1 cm.

Now place the hand that was still free in the back of your head, palms touching the back of your head until your thumb on the back of your hairline. These palms support your skull base. When you touch the TAT point to someone else, location is still the same hand, but your little finger touches the back hairline. Both touched with a light hand, there is no pressure at all.
For children under the age of 11 years, hand in front of the head was changed to the palm is placed in front of the forehead and closed the upper half of the eye. For infants, the condition of severe illness, or not comfortable being touched, TATnya same position dijarakkan hand only about 3 to 5 cm from the patient's head.

Every step TAT usually about 1 minute or until you feel you've done. Pain can be done (1) breathed spontaneously breath of relief, (2) sense is no longer seized of the problem solved, (3) attention turned to other things, (4) sensations of energy escape / free, or (5) just a sense that your process is complete. For children, this can be completed in a few seconds.

Rarely, your mood becomes more powerful negative when you do TAT. If this happens, keep doing TAT position and guide your attention to the last TAT step you just did before. By following these instructions, the mood is usually turned into a sense of peace within approximately 1 minute. If you are not too peacefully after 1 minute, ask for help from a mental health therapist professionals.

You may disconnect & rest your arms at any time - whether in a particular step or among TAT TAT step. Dipejamkan or eyes may open. You may use any hand in front of the head, or alternating between TAT step. Do TAT with a maximum 45 minutes each day. 45 minutes is calculated based on the time where you are in a position TAT. Drink 6-8 glasses of water in the days when you do TAT.

TAT 7 STEPS TO HEALING THE IMPACT OF DISASTER
Step 7 Use the following TAT was designed to cure the impact of disasters. If there are steps that do not fit with what you need, we encourage you to continue doing TAT position while praying for those who may require such steps, in order to achieve the best results.

STEP 1: Pray / Resolve that everyone associated with this problem can achieve the best healing.

Positions do TAT, and pray in your heart / berniatlah for all who need healing from the current situation. Let go of your hand when it was finished, or after about 1 minute.
STEP 2: In your heart, talk with those who have died from this disaster, as though if you can have conversations with them at this time.

Positions do TAT, and in your heart you imagine a conversation with people you know who have died from this disaster. Say whatever you need to convey to them, and listen to whatever they told you. Let go of your hand when it was finished, or after about 1-2 minutes
STEP 3: In your heart, talk with God, as if you can converse with God at this time

Positions do TAT, and in your heart to do a conversation with God today. Say whatever you need to convey to the Lord, and listen to whatever the Lord to tell you. Let go of your hand when it was finished, or after about 1-2 minutes.
STEP 4: This has occurred, it Away, my Congratulations, and now I can Relax

Positions do TAT, and say the above statement in your heart, then observe your mind, feeling your heart and body. Let go of your hand when it was finished, or after 1-2 minutes.
STEP 5: All the Places in My Life, My Thoughts, My Heart and My Body, which is associated with this problem is now cured

Positions do TAT, and say the above statement in your heart, then observe your mind, feeling your heart and body. Let go of your hand when it was finished, or after about 1-2 minutes. You do not have to know exactly where it needed healing place, just by intention alone is enough to cure it.
STEP 6: I'm sorry that I blame all of these events, including himself and God

Sometimes we do not realize maybe we have to blame someone else, yourself and sometimes even God in the events. Positions do TAT, and say the above statement in your heart, then observe your mind, feeling your heart and body. Let go of your hand when it was finished, or after about 1-2 minutes.
STEP 7: Visualize yourself together those who are still living with you, together feeling & heart, grateful for life.

Positions do TAT, and say the above statement in your heart, then observe your mind, feeling your heart and body. No matter how difficult the current situation, become aware of yourself in the company of people who are close and are still together in your life. Take a moment to pray and give thanks to God for healing you have experienced. Let go of your hand when it was finished, or after about 1-2 minutes.
If you feel uncomfortable, either between TAT step or after all the steps done, then do TAT position while watching your thoughts, feelings, or any physical sensations that are less convenient for you, until you feel more comfortable and relieved, and then continue with Step TAT if not finished .

TAT additional steps can also be done if necessary:
Step 1: "This is my fault"
Step 2: "It's not my fault"
Step 1: "I actually can do something to prevent this"
Step 2: "It is not true that I can prevent this"

After the whole process is complete, please share what you experience in this process to others.

TAT is a gentle experience of loving, that brings results in, meaningful and permanent. TAT is one of the ideal tool that can be utilized in the current situation because it is fast, practical, effective and simple.

INFORMATION & SUPPORT MORE
You may distribute this article free of charge to those in need. You can request these documents or ask questions about how to do this process via email to info@truenaturehealing.net. We also do training day for those who want to take advantage of this process directly in the field / regional disaster. Let's unite the hearts, prayers and our efforts to help others to rise up and live in peace.

Tapas Fleming, the creator of TAT technique, he was a pioneer in the field of Energy Psychology is currently booming. Until now, TAT Tapas taught in various countries, as well as clinical practice in Southern California. His background includes a variety of study and meditation that focuses on emotional and spiritual aspects of healing arts. He also formally studied TCM / Traditional Chinese Medicine, and held the license to practice acupuncture. TATLife owned website provides free instructions on how to do TAT.
Website: www.tatlife.com

Reza Gunawan is a Holistic Healing Practitioner in Jakarta, Indonesia. The main message is "We are the Best Healer for Yourself" as seen in his efforts in helping others heal themselves, both in clinical practice as well as a variety of training does the healing. Energy Psychology is one of the major healing components dipeloporinya, including TAT (Tapas Acupressure Technique), EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and BIT (Bodymind Integration Therapies).

Healing by regeneration

In order for an injury to be healed by regeneration, the cell type that was destroyed must be able to replicate. Most cells have this ability, although it is believed that cardiac muscle cells and neurons are two important exceptions.
Cells also need a collagen framework along which to grow. Alongside most cells there is either a basement membrane or a collagenous network made by fibroblasts that will guide the cells' growth. Since ischaemia and most toxins do not destroy collagen, it will continue to exist even when the cells around it are dead.
[edit]Example of regeneration
Acute tubular necrosis (ATN) in the kidney is a case in which cells heal completely by regeneration. ATN occurs when the epithelial cells that line the kidney are destroyed by either a lack of oxygen (such as in hypovolemic shock, when blood supply to the kidneys is dramatically reduced), or by toxins (such as some antibiotics, heavy metals or carbon tetrachloride).
Although many of these epithelial cells are dead, there is typically patchy necrosis, meaning that there are patches of epithelial cells still alive. In addition, the collagen framework of the tubules remains completely intact.
The existing epithelial cells can replicate, and, using the basement membrane as a guide, eventually bring the kidney back to normal. After regeneration is complete, the damage is undetectable, even microscopically.
[edit]Healing by repair

Healing must happen by repair in the case of injury to cells that are unable to regenerate (e.g. cardiac muscle or neurons). Also, damage to the collagen network (e.g. by enzymes or physical destruction), or its total collapse (as can happen in an infarct) cause healing to take place by repair.
Soon after injury, a wound healing cascade is unleashed. This cascade is usually said to take place in three phases: the inflammatory, proliferative, and maturation stages.
In the inflammatory phase, macrophages and other phagocytic cells kill bacteria, debride damaged tissue and release chemical factors such as growth hormones that encourage fibroblasts epithelial cells and endothelial cells which make new capillaries to migrate to the area and divide.
In the proliferative phase, immature granulation tissue containing plump active fibroblasts forms. Fibroblasts quickly produce abundant type III collagen, which fills the defect left by an open wound. Granulation tissue moves, as a wave, from the border of the injury towards the center.
As granulation tissue matures, the fibroblasts produce less collagen and become more spindly in appearance. They begin to produce the much stronger type I collagen. Some of the fibroblasts mature into myofibroblasts which contain the same type of actin found in smooth muscle, which enables them to contract and reduce the size of the wound.
During the maturation phase of wound healing, unnecessary vessels formed in granulation tissue are removed by apoptosis, and type III collagen is largely replaced by type I. Collagen which was originally disorganized is cross-linked and aligned along tension lines. This phase can last a year or longer. Ultimately a scar made of collagen, containing a small number of fibroblasts is left.
The process of healing a common incision involves an orchestrated sequence of events in standardized time, beginning with a clot at 0 hours, neutrophil invasion at 3 to 24 hours, and mitoses in epithelial bases at 24 to 48 hours. After this point, healing follows the previously mentioned procedure.


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In order for an injury to be healed by regeneration, the cell type that was destroyed must be able to replicate. Most cells have this ability, although it is believed that cardiac muscle cells and neurons are two important exceptions.

Cells also need a collagen framework along which to grow. Alongside most cells there is either a basement membrane or a collagenous network made by fibroblasts that will guide the cells' growth. Since ischaemia and most toxins do not destroy collagen, it will continue to exist even when the cells around it are dead.

Example of regeneration

Acute tubular necrosis (ATN) in


the kidney is a case in which cells heal completely by regeneration. ATN occurs when the epithelial cells that line the kidney are destroyed by either a lack of oxygen (such as in hypovolemic shock, when blood supply to the kidneys is dramatically reduced), or by toxins (such as some antibiotics, heavy metals or carbon tetrachloride).

Although many of these epithelial cells are dead, there is typically patchy necrosis, meaning that there are patches of epithelial cells still alive. In addition, the collagen framework of the tubules remains completely intact.

The existing epithelial cells can replicate, and, using the basement membrane as a guide, eventually bring the kidney back to normal. After regeneration is complete, the damage is undetectable, even microscopically.

Healing by repair

Healing must happen by repair in the case of injury to cells that are unable to regenerate (e.g. cardiac muscle or neurons). Also, damage to the collagen network (e.g. by enzymes or physical destruction), or its total collapse (as can happen in an infarct) cause healing to take place by repair.

Soon after injury, a wound healing cascade is unleashed. This cascade is usually said to take place in three phases: the inflammatory, proliferative, and maturation stages.

In the inflammatory phase, macrophages and other phagocytic cells kill bacteria, debride damaged tissue and release chemical factors such as growth hormones that encourage fibroblasts epithelial cells and endothelial cells which make new capillaries to migrate to the area and divide.

In the proliferative phase, immature granulation tissue containing plump active fibroblasts forms. Fibroblasts quickly produce abundant type III collagen, which fills the defect left by an open wound. Granulation tissue moves, as a wave, from the border of the injury towards the center.

As granulation tissue matures, the fibroblasts produce less collagen and become more spindly in appearance. They begin to produce the much stronger type I collagen. Some of the fibroblasts mature into myofibroblasts which contain the same type of actin found in smooth muscle, which enables them to contract and reduce the size of the wound.

During the maturation phase of wound healing, unnecessary vessels formed in granulation tissue are removed by apoptosis, and type III collagen is largely replaced by type I. Collagen which was originally disorganized is cross-linked and aligned along tension lines. This phase can last a year or longer. Ultimately a scar made of collagen, containing a small number of fibroblasts is left.

The process of healing a common incision involves an orchestrated sequence of events in standardized time, beginning with a clot at 0 hours, neutrophil invasion at 3 to 24 hours, and mitoses in epithelial bases at 24 to 48 hours. After this point, healing follows the previously mentioned procedure.

Healing and modern vitalism
The factual accuracy of this section is disputed.
Please see the relevant discussion on the talk page.(March 2008)

A distinction can be drawn between the "classical vitalism" and a "modern vitalism" that can be accommodated by conventional biomedical science and the body's ability to heal itself. This modern vitalism is best described by the phrase vis medicatrix naturae – the healing power of nature. Nature, or more specifically, the body's natural healing mechanisms, is the principal mechanism by which any healing process occurs. Without these natural mechanisms (our immune system, our wound healing capacity, and countless other regulatory and corrective systems), life itself is barely possible. Some healing practices have taken to naming these natural mechanisms. Chiropractic often uses the term innate intelligence to describe the body's inborn ability to heal itself.[1]

Healing in games
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Please help improve this section by adding citations to reliable sources. Unverifiable material may be challenged and removed. (July 2008)

In a number of fantasy and role-playing games, the term 'healing' is used to describe the replenishment of a character's Hit Points, or HP for short. Healing is usually associated with 'white magic' in which 'white mages' use pure energy to heal a character by casting 'cure' spells to give HP back. A HP bar normally represents how much health a character has in a certain game and how much damage he/she/it can absorb before succumbing to faint/knockout/death etc. In games where damage and healing are numerically displayed, HP restored is usually show in green numbers.

Other forms of healing in games exist, and the aforementioned example seems to apply only to a specific genre. Health packs, or First Aid packs are used more generally in games to heal characters. Health packs can come in many different forms- syringes, icons or briefcases. Games differ in the way in which health is added to the character: some games require only the character to walk over a health icon to heal; other games require the character to physically administer the health pack contents to themselves (this is usually achieved by choosing a health pack from an inventory and selecting it).

References

1. ^ Nelson CF, Lawrence DJ, Triano JJ, Bronfort G, Perle SM, Metz RD, Hegetschweiler K, La Brot T. Chiropractic as spine care: a model for the profession. Chiropr Osteopat. 2005;13:9. doi: 10.1186/1746-1340-13-9. available online



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And, he delivered a stirring speech tonight in Chicago. He clearly recognizes that he will have to heal the wounds of a bruising and much too long (two years) presidential campaign.

In his own party, there are still many who favored Hillary Clinton and will need a lot of convincing to give their hearts and souls to Obama.

As for the GOP, well, in terms of the popular vote, John McCain got almost as many as Obama–enough to indicate that the divisions in this country still run deep.

Obama has his job cut out for him. Now is when we will all really learn whether he is the right man for the job or not!


It is very encouraging the fantastic change that you President elect Mr.Barrack Obama had been able to make, even before your overwhelming victory on the 4th November. You have been able to heal past wounds and bring the whole nation together. In your acceptance speech you made it clear that there is no black America or a white America , blue States or red States, but there is only the United State of America. That call had been heard and well received. To-day even before the Presidential Election was over you made history making the American dream come true.

As I write this you have 200 electoral votes, to 85 for Senator McCain, and going by numbers there is no doubt which way the votes are going and by the end of the day you will be the 44th President of USA.

In anticipation I Congratulate you President Barrack Obama, I wish you, and your wonderful family, all that is best and may you have the strength to see through all Changes you have in mind to make America a country of hope for all Americans without distinction, and hope for the developing nations of the world.

We pray, and wish you strength to find American economy back on its feet soon….

Asides, from that I urge you to please help developing Countries to progress by supporting them, and helping them rid themselves of barriers that have hampered their progress.

I being of Sri Lankan origin I cannot help but speak to you of the terrorism in Sri Lanka..

The Bush Administration did not understand the Sri Lanka’s reason to opt for a military solution to eliminate terrorism. The Government of Sri Lanka is not fighting a war against the Tamils, as those who take side with the terrorists may try to make you believe.

A group of Tamil youths took up arms way back in 1980s against the Government, claiming a part of the country to set up an Independent State for Tamils. For nearly three decades they terrorised the north and east of Sri Lanka, killing all those who opposed them including many Tamil intellectual, politicians, and innocent men and women mostly by blasting “suicide human bombs”.

The Government’s call for them to negotiate a peace settlement was rejected, over and over again demanding nothing less than the set up of a separate Tamil State. Having failed to negotiate, the Government was forced to resort to a military solution. The Government forces are carrying out successful military action against the terrorists, and is in the process of eliminating terrorism from Sri Lanka for good.

The forces that want to set up a separate Tamil State, including large numbers of Tamils who have settled down in foreign countries, such as USA, Canada, Australia, France etc, called the Tamil diaspora, help the terrorists, by providing them with financial support.

They accuse the government of attacking the Tamils, which is false propaganda to win over the sympathy of the International Community. The government forces are risking their lives in attacking the terrorists, avoiding the civil population , who are being used as human shields by the terrorists.

In that process the soldiers face innumerable dangers because of the booby traps and anti personal mines set up by the terrorists. The government of Sri Lanka has not neglected its responsibility to the Tamil people, and supply consumable articles and medicine on a weekly basis with the help of the UN Office in Sri Lanka. The Government is also preparing a package of political devolution to help the Tamil Community to integrate more firmly into the national fabric.

Please protect the sovereign State of Sri Lanka, without being tricked by a pro-terrorist Tamil Group in America, who has found access to you calling themselves “Tamils for Obama”. They accuse the government of Sri Lanka as carrying on a genocide against the Tamils. This is an extremely dangerous racist group, posing as wealthy Tamils settled down in America, working hand in hand with the terrorists in Sri Lanka. The terrorists in Sri Lanka calling themselves the LTTE ( Liberation Tigers of Tamil Eelam), is currently proscribed as a terrorist organisation by 31 countries in the world.

We pray you President, to disassociate with the group who has found access to you calling themselves ” The Tamils for Obama”. Please remove them from your list of contributors for the election campaign. And before any action by word or action is made against the Government of Sri Lanka, please consult the President of the Sovereign State of the Democratic Socialist Republic of Sri Lanka.

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An affair can be devastating and often when we think of cheating spouses, we rarely think of women. But according to a cover story in Newsweek magazine, more and more women are having extra-marital affairs and the numbers keep rising. If you have had or are having an extra-marital affair and are confused about whether or not the relationship can be saved - the answer is it can, if you both want to save it.


1. You both see this as a wake-up call.

* A wake-up call means chop, chop - eyes open - no more hiding and pretending there are not issues and problems.
* BOTH of you have to take responsibility for moving forward, even though only one of you has cheated.
* Cheating is symptomatic of discontent and an unwillingness to deal with problems straight-on.
* Cheating is a cowardice way of behaving.

2. Acknowledge old hurts - Clear resentments.

* To move forward, old hurts must be acknowledged. Without this step, resentments continue to build.
* Cheating does not happen overnight - resentments have been there for some time. Recognize this and bring what is in darkness to light.

3. Realize your spouse deserves to know the truth.

* This does not include knowing all the details of the affair. Doing this only creates more hurt and resentment. There is no reason to know all the details; it will give you nothing.
* The truth is your feelings, not your excuses, as there is NEVER a valid excuse for cheating.

4. Accept responsibility for cheating and never do it again.

* Cheating is not a sexual crime but a crime of betrayal. We cheat our partner out of ever really trusting us again.
* Unless you experience great remorse for having cheated, you will do it again. Remorse comes from being able to fully take responsibility for your actions, acknowledge the pain you have inflicted on someone who trusted you, recognize it is bad character on your part - and vow never to do that again.

5. Stay together if both of you are ready to forgive and re-build.

* Unless your partner has the willingness to begin the process of forgiveness, this relationship can never heal.
* By the very same token, unless you are willing to change your behavior and behave with dignity and respect. This relationship can never be healed.

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HEAL OF HUMOUR My Love

Darling!
Yes my love, I ‘ m listening...
...I ‘ m...I ‘ m going to die, right? I just know it...
Don ‘ t speak! Don ‘ t worry my love...don ‘ t exaust yourself...
...no...wait...I ‘ m dying...before I die...I must confess something to you...
You don ‘ t have to confess anything to me my love, just rest...
YES!... I need you to know this!
Relax my love..!


Listen...I slept with your sister... and also with Christine, your best friend...and with Myriam, my secretary...and...
...and with Sylvia, Oliver ‘ s wife...and...you should know...since we ‘ ve been married...I ‘ ve always cheated on you
I know, honey, I know.
Now, just relax my love...
And let the POISON take effect...

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